Today I had lunch with my mother and I was enjoying her company I hear a man over my shoulder trying to give a younger man his opinion of women and relationships.
The older man said. "A man can chase a woman as long as he wants to and that is normal, but a woman who chases a man is desperate." I found this interesting although I rolled my eyes and laughed a little to myself.
If it is desperate to seek out what you want and to feel passionate about it and know what it is that you want then I find it a little hypocritical. Men are far more often the ones to get restraining orders against them, rape some one, burgle or steal and assault. How is that not desperation for needs and wants?
A woman's heart my be desperate but they are far more in control of the desperation then men I believe. Go ahead and preach on sir. I am sorry that maybe your significant other did not love you in the ways that her heart was desperate to be with you. Want you more than anything else in the moment for you to find out that it is indeed not desperation... It is the ability to show your true emotions and feelings. Not be ashamed of them and the ability to show them to someone else.
Women are not desperate, they are passionate and strong willed.
Life is not about waiting for the things you want to happen to you but to make them happen for you.
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